October, 2009:

In reply to an online inquiry I made, I was sent a response by the Director of Recognition Awards & Business Development and following her signature was written these words; “Practicing Random Acts of Kindness”.  This was such an atypical business tag line but it caught my interest because I heartily share the philosophy.

Some months later I began receiving significant business opportunities and although I wasn’t certain, I wondered if it was her magic wand of “Random Kindness” that had been wielded in my direction. The actions that bring achievement in business can be measured by diligence, patience, error, luck and in some instances; by the kindness of others.  I was correct in my assumption that it was her that passed on the opportunities that have assisted to further validate my skills.

Why am I telling you this?  Perhaps it is time to randomly practice appreciation to those that have helped you succeed in business. We are often supported by dedicated employees, faithful clients, trusting associates, and casual acquaintances but do we make the effort to show or tell them how much their support has helped in the growth or success of our business?  Of course in shameless self-promotion I would encourage you to host an appreciation event for them however, I would like to emphasize that extravagant events are not always necessary.  The simplest tribute in the form of a spoken word, or perhaps a card can cultivate the truest form of appreciation and contribute to a positive corporate culture.  Even better if they are then encouraged to pay it forward.

In the earliest stages of my own business development I was met with some not so encouraging results when seeking advice from my industry competitors, and at that moment I vowed that I would never deny assistance to anyone attempting an event planning career. That one decision has me answering inquiries and mentoring potentially future rivals quite frequently, but this one ethical practice has given me the pleasure of paying forward my knowledge and guidance.

Anyone that has helped you along the way would be touched to know they meant a difference in your business.  In my own circumstance, I took Ms “Random Acts of Kindness” for lunch and told her how much I appreciated what she had done for me. During our lunch I mentioned how refreshing it was to meet someone in business that was not embarrassed to apply these values in a business landscape.   Knowing her philosophy helped me when I bought her a gift of gratitude. Inside the bag I included a smaller wrapped gift, knowing that when the time was right she would continue to Pay it Forward to some other deserving person at work.